A sultry jazz singer, a captivating radio host, and an audio erotica voice actor. This unlikely trio all have one thing in common: An irresistible voice that leaves listeners spellbound. 

But what makes someone’s speaking voice hot? Factors like pitch, tempo, and texture (yes, voice has a texture) impact how alluring a person sounds. Fortunately, these factors are easy enough to switch up — meaning anyone can learn to reel people in with their words. 

Whether you're pursuing a career in audio erotica or want to seduce your partner with a siren song, read on to learn how to sound sexier. 

What makes your voice attractive? 

The allure of a voice is a subjective tapestry woven from a myriad of elements: pitch, speed, tone, resonance, and even vocabulary, each contributing to its distinct charm. For some, sexy sounds like confidence. For others, a hot voice might be warm, soft, and welcoming. Like looks, different people prefer different sounds — meaning there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to sounding sexy.

Instead, it’s up to the listener. You can ask friends or partner(s), “What do you like about my voice?” Chances are, their answers will vary, and you’ll learn about several unique ways your voice creates a sense of appeal.

How to sound seductive versus attractive  

The difference between seductive and attractive voices is subtle but significant. You can think of these adjectives as they apply to people: attractive folks simply look good, while seduction is a deliberate act.

An attractive voice draws people in, and regardless of context or intent, it’s a magnet for effortless attraction. It's soothing, pleasant, and organically makes you feel some type of way — but this is usually unintentional. 

On the other hand, a seductive voice charms, entices, and intentionally pulls someone closer. It arises out of intent, with conscious choices like pauses, subtle changes in pitch, and diction working together to achieve a desired effect. These speakers strategically use language and tone to create intimacy and are calculated and flirtatious in their goal to seduce.  

How to make your voice sound sexier 

While the most important thing is feeling comfortable and confident — which listeners can certainly pick up on — you can intentionally adjust aspects of your voice to sound sexier. Try tweaking one of the following:  

Pitch 

Pitch describes how high or low the voice sounds. But when it comes to consensus about what sounds the sexiest, the jury’s still out. Some research shows that men often perceive women with higher-pitched voices as more attractive, while women typically find men with lower-pitched, deeper voices more appealing. However, a 2010 study found that all genders perceive a lower pitch as more appealing, regardless of who’s speaking. 

If you decide to tweak your voice to sound deeper, don’t go overboard and strain your vocal cords. Instead of pushing out a deep or growly tone, which can sound forced, speak from your chest for a more resonant sound.  

Tempo  

Your voice’s speed can also influence whether or not listeners find it sexy. A slow tempo is often interpreted as quite seductive, as it implies depth and control, while a faster tempo can come across as urgent and intense. Consider the differences between quick words of pleasure and a slow, intimate voice in your ear. Which is sexier to you?  

Texture  

The texture of your voice is how breathy or rough it sounds. Are your words smooth and soft-spoken, or coarse and gravelly? Some people find slightly breathy voices in women come across as the sexiest, while roughness or resonance is often interpreted as more attractive and dominant in men, as it adds a sort of rugged charm to their voice. But you don’t need to stick to these gendered and binary rules to sound hot — do what best represents your authentic self. 

5 tips to sound more seductive for audio erotica 

Audio erotica is an intimate medium that’s becoming more and more popular. It engages the listener’s imagination, encouraging them to fill in the details of the explicit scenes in their heads.  

This type of porn is about more than just using voice acting to sell sex. If you’re considering venturing into this world as a creator, understanding how to use your voice effectively can make a substantial difference in how your audience perceives and enjoys your content. 

These actionable tips can help you sound more seductive: 

1. Record and listen to yourself   

It’s essential to know how you sound on a recording — the results may surprise you. Record yourself reading a script or even just speaking freely, then listen to it with a critical ear. What do you like, and what do you think you should change? Does your voice sound seductive or attractive, breathy or husky, high-pitched or low-pitched? Get familiar with your sound to help figure out what works for you. 

2. Don’t try to change your voice (too much) 

Copying someone else’s voice isn’t the way to go. While experimenting with pitch and tone is fine, don’t force your voice into sounding like something it’s not. Authenticity is important to listeners, so your voice should still sound like you — just with a few tweaks. A slight adjustment goes a long way, but too much seems insincere. 

3. Relax 

If you’re tense, it’s easy to hear it in your voice. Before recording a scene or story, take a few deep breaths or do something relaxing, like a short meditation or a walk around the block. A relaxed voice sounds more confident, and that’s sexy.  

4. Study other sexy voices 

Listen to other performers you think sound sexy and consider how to emulate them without losing your personal sound. Analyze what they do and see if you can incorporate similar techniques into your audio erotica. Instead of imitating how they speak, try to adapt other successful performers’ traits to your voice.  

5. Take good care of your voice  

As a voice actor, your voice is your instrument. Care for it by staying hydrated and avoiding straining your vocal cords or vocal fold. Consider professional vocal training if you’re serious about your craft and growing your audience — the better your voice and throat feel, the better you’ll sound. 

Train your voice with Quinn  

Quinn, an audio erotica app created by women for the world, is home to a stunning range of sensual audio erotica. It’s the perfect place for creators to find inspiration and share narrated sex stories with a diverse audience.  

Download Quinn for iOS or Android for access to thousands of audio stories and guided masturbation sessions. Then, listen and practice to sound sexier in no time.